tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4527787253622306473.post7715392214595879068..comments2019-01-14T19:44:59.598-08:00Comments on JellyBellyBegone: UPDATERMSLILhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10734160135326574866noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4527787253622306473.post-8815384877082185812010-10-25T03:32:01.936-07:002010-10-25T03:32:01.936-07:00Becky, Maybe, just maybe it is better your mother ...Becky, Maybe, just maybe it is better your mother is removed from the will. Meaning, when he passes, your mom can grieve and wash her hands of things. Your aunt wanted "everything" well, she will be left with everything to clean up, and typically thats a huge job. Your family wont be any richer, or better off with your grandfathers things, so why really care? Stay strong, stand by your truth, and Try to remember your grandfather as the man you once loved. Remember he isnt in his right mind, and the way he is acting is because he has an illness. I know its easier said then done, but when you go there to help, and he pushes you away, accept that. All you can do is assist him right now, dont push what you want on him or he will be even harder to deal with. I am praying for you, and hope that this storm is over sooner then later, because I honestly believe there will be a rainbow when its over. <br /><br />Hugs, and friendship MarciaMarciahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07542133358764910156noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4527787253622306473.post-29933464918002997672010-10-24T21:19:17.255-07:002010-10-24T21:19:17.255-07:00will pray, Becky. Only God can restore these relat...will pray, Becky. Only God can restore these relationships so I will continue to pray. It is sad that your aunt is allowing your grandfather to act like this and potentially remove your mom from the will. It is sad that she is helping tear the family apart instead of being on your mom's side and rallying for her to be included in the will<br /><br />Keep documenting all the incidents of your grandfather's that he is not able to take care of himself, perhaps someone will see that he truly can't and step in to try to keep him safe in his final days<br /><br />it really is such a sad situation.....<br /><br />bettybettyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06323135450742337670noreply@blogger.com