tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4527787253622306473.post2761427317452456056..comments2019-01-14T19:44:59.598-08:00Comments on JellyBellyBegone: Update to the update..RMSLILhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10734160135326574866noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4527787253622306473.post-19761732484270293512010-12-12T06:06:13.235-08:002010-12-12T06:06:13.235-08:00Before I read Meg's comment, I was thinking th...Before I read Meg's comment, I was thinking the exact same thing, to go and visit your grandfather and talk about "fun" things, don't let him bring up anything hurtful or hateful. Stay for a short visit and try to keep it all positive if you can. It is hard not to carry around bitterness associated with ways and words he has done and used over the years because that can consume you and take over you and you don't want that to happen (been there, done that). If anything, be grateful that God orchestrated it that your grandparents met, married, etc because without that happening, you wouldn't have your mother, know what I mean? Think of the positives to be thankful for.<br /><br />As for his driving, I do understand everyone's concern. My FIL at 87 is unsafe to drive but no one will step in and intervene. His doctor told him not to drive and said she wouldn't inform the DMV if he said he wouldn't drive (she knew how hard it would be for him to actually lose his license or have it taken away so she wanted him to promise not to drive and at least keep his license). He is still driving despite that. I started praying that if he was unsafe to drive, and only God knew that, for God to open people's eyes to that fact and get him off the road. I fear what will happen if he has an accident.<br /><br />We can only hope if we God allows us to live this long that we will handle ourselves better and make wiser choices<br /><br />bettybettyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06323135450742337670noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4527787253622306473.post-46119482829254574592010-12-12T05:31:58.788-08:002010-12-12T05:31:58.788-08:00Becky, I think you should bake a batch of browies ...Becky, I think you should bake a batch of browies and take them over there. When you see him, be sure you start the conversation first, with something really positive, and have a good visit with him. If you do go for a visit, at least you'll know whether or not you will want to go back.The Brown Recluse (TBR)https://www.blogger.com/profile/02842968253903586925noreply@blogger.com